SEX SEX SEX......BE PREPARED OR DON't DO IT!!!

So Yesterday i was reading Tamicks blog on promiscuity and i realised how much i have to say on this topic after leaving a long comment on her blog.

we have been hearing about HIV, AIDS, SYPHILIS, GONORRHEA, HERPES and the list goes on. FOLKS THESE THINGS ARE REAL!!! If you have unprotected sex with someone infected with any of these disease you will get it unless you have extraordinary luck. sometimes i think women are more concerned with protecting themselves from pregnancy by taking the pill but what about protecting yourself from STI/Ds? Come on guys!! THE PILL DOES NOT WORK AGAINST HIV AND OTHER STI/Ds!! I am not encouraging anyone to be promiscuous...some women use a condom . they carry it. but that is not a reason to be promiscuous! CONDOMS ARE NOT 100% EFFECTIVE!! if used properly however it can save your life.. Also young women...please...if you are not mentally and physically capable of handling the responsibility that comes with sex then don't have sex!! please protect yourself ladies. I am currently doing a peer councelling course and i was not even aware that there were so many kinds of contraceptives and protection. condoms are not your only choice. They are also free at your local health center so please get some and protect yourself.

In my opinion a woman should have a stable job; a supportive, loving and respectful HUSBAND, a stable home or environment to raise these kids and a good relationship with GOD BEFORE SHE HAS A CHILD!! Don't bring a child into this world so that he can suffer physically, emotionally and probably deprived of life's basic necessities..Come on people that is just cruel and wrong. Young women please LEARN HOW TO SAY NO and MEAN IT!! even if you have already said yes you can still say NO! after all isn't it YOUR BODY!

i have been speaking to young ladies but shame on some of you guys who think that you can't speak to a girl without having sex with her. YOU MAY THINK THAT YOU ARE INVINCIBLE but I have news for you. ANY ONE CAN GET INFECTED AND HIV AND AIDS ARE NOT THE ONLY THING THAT YOU CAN GET!! Society also has a role to play. i have been a victim of this norm by society. it goes like this IF YOU ARE SEEN SPEAKING TO A GUY THEN YOU MUST BE HAVING SEX WITH HIM..we need to be more mature than this come on. I am still standing but other young ladies who do nothing about it can have stress over such rumors. instead of spreading rumors find out the truth and see how best you can help people!

SHAME ON YOU SOCIETY!! Yes you SOCIETY for molding some of our men into insensitive jerks who don't have the slightest idea about the female anatomy and who refuse to be faithful and blaming it on a load of crap about a one man to many women ratio.. SHAME ON YOU. society has made it a norm that men are not supposed to cry or show any emotion. i hate to hear an adult telling a boy not to cry because he is a big boy or when people say real men don't cry...SHUT UP ALREADY!! then when they beat up their wives and become promiscuous (YES MEN CAN BE JAMETS, HOES AND SLUTS TOO IT IS NOT A FEMININE THING) contact an STI/D and then spread it around like there is no tomorrow we want to put them in jail...I am not saying that they should not be punished because there are consequences for these actions...but we need to change our attitudes.

We have mad it so taboo to talk about sex that it is not funny! you seat on the bus and say something about HIV or about SEX (THE ACT OR THE GENDER) and people will just be like THIS PERSON HAS NO MANNERS..i mean i will not just go and speak about having sex or something of that nature but people believe that sex has one meaning...SOCIETY YOU AGAIN!

I vehemently believe that the best way to go is to to ABSTAIN until you get married because that is how GOD wanted it to be..If there was not sex before marriage FORNICATION (YES I SAID IT ...SO SUE ME!!) and married couples were faithful to each other and not commit ADULTERY ( I SAID IT AGAIN) then WE WOULD NOT HAVE THESES KINDS OF STI/Ds that we have now. We are however not perfect but if you slip up please protect yourself...

I have so much more to say ....I specifically want to speak about THESE NASTY PEOPLE WHO HAVE SEX WITH ANIMALS!! but that is for another show...well Blog.. until then

Abstain
Be faithful
Condomise

XOXOXO

Pringles are chips!

well i was reading this article which states that a british court determined that pringles are indeed chip because they have enough potato content to be a chip and they are therefore going to have to incure value added tax!! .....lol....it seems that everyday the courts are being used as an avenue to determined so many things..i tell you!! Some time ago some guy was suing GOD!! now am i the only one who thinks that this is RIDICULOUS AND STUPID? I mean lets say he did win the case who would pay him? would the police officer go to heaven to get go and make him pay up??? seriously people i think that educated people in this "mordern day and age" are alittle too educated for my taste and put their knowledge to use in some very ridiculous ways...well the pringles incident in my opinion was to determine whether VAD should be paid on it...so it is not that ridiculous...but i am a pringles lover but these foods are not necessities really and why shouldn't they have to pay VAT!!!

i mean if VAt was implemented on wheat, milk, rice and basic food items as aforementioned then i would have an issue...

lol...such a silly world!!

Peer Counsellors

So i started this Peer Counseling course and can you imagine that there is only ONE young man at the class. I mean come on GUYS!!! ONE GUY!!! it seems to me that women are more concerned about helping the societies young people who are plagued with social ills including but not limited to drugs, alcohol, teenage pregnancy, STI/STDs. I mean come on guys!!! It is our responsibility to help curb these problems....NOT ONLY WOMEN'S RESPONSIBILITY!!!!!!!



XOXOXO

SEMINAR BY DR RAMBALLY

So today i was at church as is custom on Sabbath and we were supposed to go out inviting people in the afternoon to a seminar which will be held by Dr. Rambally at the Cacoa SDA Church beginning on the Sunday the 25th at 7:00pm and then i figured that i should advertise it here on my blog and do my part...... so i am extending this invitation to all of you who read my blog.....COME AND BE BLESSED!!

GRAND SEMINAR

DATE: July 25th, 2009

DURATION: 3 Weeks

TIME: 7:00 pm

VENUE: Cacoa SDA church, Vieux- Fort, St. Lucia

PRESENTER: Dr. Rambally

TRANSPORTATION WILL BE PROVIDED FOR PERSONS LIVING IN CACOA, VIGE, AUPICON and PIERROT...

EVERYONE IS INVITED!!!

C U THERE !!!

i will have more information for persons who are coming as time goes by...